ummmm...maybe we are too casual for your taste
we didn't actually keep score like that (I know, I know... it's how you're supposed to do it...and maybe after this there will be some uproar from the other golfers to get us all on the same page as to how to do it), we just sort of assumed everyone was keepin' it honest.
However, if you do decide to come and play and if we get partnered up in a foursome, I will only have great appreciation for someone like you to teach me the in's and out's of all these rules, regs, and norms and stuff and things...
the only time i've ever visited the pdga website i was overwhelmed with all the rules, rules, rules...I guess it has to be done, though, as not everyone is as honest (or good at math) as we would all like.
thanks for the input, treelove!