I've had a Sherpa hard shell set that I've worn for team golf the last three years. They're still really waterproof. They're nice and breathable with the type of fabric and lots of vents. The fabric also has a bit of a stretch to it and nice articulated elbows. It's a close enough fit that the fabric doesn't get bunched up or in the way when I'm throwing. It's an investment but I found them both on sale at Next Adventure and got them with scrip for less than $100 each. Here's links although mine are probably an older version.
Pants:
http://www.sherpaadventuregear.com/fw12-womens-har...category_id=65
Jacket:
http://www.sherpaadventuregear.com/fw12-womens-har...category_id=65
I wear the Salomon GoreTex Trail runners. They seem to last about a year or two of playing all through the winter.
http://www.salomon.com/us/product/xa-pro-3d-ultra-...%2Bultra%2Bgtx