Originally Posted by emmarose
and, yes, it may be easier for someone NOT in a relationship to help instruct her... when you get frustrated it's much easier to take it out on someone you love in nonconstructive ways. also, there are simply some very different technique and equipment things for men and women.
I can second this. Me and Erin work a lot together and practice a lot of different things, but there is only so much I can help her with just because our body's work differently.